Welcome to SelFou
SelFou is where systems thinking meets human connection. We help organizations navigate complexity through trust-centered engagement, leadership development, and transformation design.
SelFou Consulting is our practice — where we work with clients to align people, processes, and platforms around shared outcomes. SelFou.digital is our contribution — a space for tools, insights, and learning resources built from what we’ve had to figure out the hard way.
Whether you’re here to collaborate or explore, we’re glad you found us.
What We Work With
We engage complexity at three levels:
Individuals — shaped by culture, neurodiversity, identity, and lived experience.
Groups — navigating relationships, roles, and the friction of difference.
Organizations — embedded in industry, policy, and history, with formal structures and informal dynamics.
We use sociograms to complement organigrams — making trust, influence, and informal networks visible.
Two Interconnected Streams
SelFou Consulting
We support organizations through:
Stakeholder engagement
Leadership development
Transformation design
SelFou.digital
We share tools, frameworks, and reflections to help others lead with clarity and care.
Call to Action
Ready to work with complexity — not against it? Let’s build coherence together.


